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  • Not so random..

    There should be a lesson for all dog owners who own a dog that is smaller or about the same size as a football. If your dog is puntable... keep it on a short leash during rush hour in NYC.. because I really do NOT enjoy playing Chinese jump rope with the leash pre-9AM just so I don't squish your dog by stepping on it. 

    I don't have much to report really. Went to Ikea last night after work. Bought some things.. nothing big.. so, in lieu of lotsa little randoms, here is some bigger news:

    I haven't had a cigarette since November 1st.. well, Wednesday was my first whole smoke free day. I had one many Tuesday night and that was that. It wasn't intentionally my last one. Kind of super easy. I imagine this will get harder at some point.. but somehow envisioning corroded arteries when I think of smoke, plus all of a sudden (after 16 years) the smell grosses me out... today is day 3. Easypeasy so far. Sometimes I surprise me.

    I wasn't planning on quitting till November 27th.. but I think I maybe did this week? I still have an open pack in my purse. I'm pretty sure there's a lighter in my coat pocket still.. but now that i've survived the first two days.. why start up again? Time to put away the ashtrays and get rid of those cheap cartons I bought in Virginia.

    Who wouldda thunk.

    Happy weekend!


    I kind of want to play Chinese Jump Rope now. Weird, right?!?

  • More randoms..

    iCan iDownload OS X Lion so that I can play with iCloud. iCan, ican and iWill! It will be nice to have my computer music sync with the iPad. One day i'll go ahead and get the Time Machine and the squeezeboxes and everything all on one server and it'll be all beautiously organized and yeah.. one day..


    And now to the tune of Elton John's Daniel..  Daniel the beagle.. you were eu-hu-thi-nized.. but you.. survived. Ok, forget the singing.. but seriously. So apparently a dog was put down (along with a bunch of other dogs). I somehow assumed that this was always done through lethal injection, however it isn't.. dogs are put in a gas chamber. No, I kid you not. Anyhow, in October in Alabama a dog was put in such a chamber with 17 other pooches, and when the door was opened after the carbon monoxide was supposed to have killed them all, a beagle walked out..

    Now everyone wants to adopt this un-killable beagle. What I don't understand though is that in all the press i've seen, no one seems all that bothered by the fact that this dog SURVIVED it's own euthanasia. It watched 17 buddies die. It was exposed to gasses that should have killed it. Now i'm not a huge animal person.. but doesn't this just seem wrong?!? So while we can all be amazed at this AMAZING beagle, shouldn't we question the fact that something went wrong and this happened? Sure, perhaps he was near an air pocket.. but why then are there air pockets? Also, the headers all say that Daniel was rescued. Um, no he wasn't.. he was put down and he saved himself. Or a puppy God saved him. Do dogs have 9 lives too? 


    At the gorcery store last night I noticed this.. 

    WTF?! Is this for people who can't slice a cantaloupe themselves? Am I missing something here?


    Alright, well I have some commuting woes I could blog about--like how yesterday my subway line wasn't running at all in the morning and so I ended up walking to another station where there were SO many people waiting that I decided to take a train the wrong way, get on the train going the right way two stops away, and then be on the train while millions of others squeeze on back at that station that had the millions of people. Needless to say I got to work late.

    Today I was happy to see that the trains were fully functional again. Unfortunately the people on them weren't..  I noticed while waiting for the doors to open that there was someone behind me very wound up and anxious to get on the train. I know that New Yorkers have terrible subway etiquette but I try to be good. Really. I let people exit before I enter, I scoot all the way in most of the time, I'll give up my seat to the elderly..  So I get on the train and walk to the middle of the car and grab onto the bar. The woman behind me bulldozers her way through, knocking into me sighing loudly, knocks my bag off my shoulder and ends up standing closer to the next door over. I think I said "Really?" or "WHY?" or something like that in my half-asleep-but-what-is-this-clown-doing moment.

    Because i'm me.. and thus somewhat evil.. I stared her down for a bit. If looks could kill.. she may have smoked. She noticed after a subway stop or two at which point I looked away and that was that. I forgot she existed. UNTIL.. it was time for me to get off the train. I get out at the first stop in Manhattan and so a lot of other people exit there as well. The conductor announces the stop and I turn to get out. It is fairly crowded but doable. Behind me I can hear her "sigh sigh sigh OH GOD sigh sigh". Almost meltdown like. Not in a 'help me' way, but in a 'I can't effing believe this train and why isn't there a freakin' red carpet laid out for me right here' manner. Now.. what is her deal? I mean, the trains are often crowded, but find yourself a spot, stand in it, and then say excuse me and squeeze off the train. It ain't rocket science. If this woman actually has some sort of disease.. claustrophobia or what not.. why is she taking the subway in NYC at rush hour? A cab from where she got on to where she (i think) got off (based on her sighs) costs maybe $16. Somehow it didn't all seem worth the stress.. and MAN, was she stressed.

    Yeah, NYC sure has plenty of the crazies. Even if they look dressed for their corporate job and seem fairly well put together. I hope people didn't let her off the car easily. Cause again, i'm evil like that

    Happy Humpday!

  • Randoms..

    If you think about it, BOGO should really be BOGO..HO. Since it isn't Buy One Get One at Payless... it's Buy One Get One Half Off.

    There is a Kenmore ad on TV where the person puts a vase full of flowers in the fridge. Now, other than at the flower shop where roses are sometimes in a cooling case, has anyone at home ever stuck a pretty floral arrangement in their fridge? Seriously? This commercial irks me. I'm easily irked apparently.

    Did anyone watch RHBH last night? HOLY MOLY. The mermaid?!? Who then slid down the banister like a freak show? And Kim's new boyfriend who was wearing a wedding ring?! Who has been dating her a year (like while she was in rehab too?). And who kept sniffling to such an extent that I started to wonder how much coke was in his HUGE shnozz..  

    In other news, I managed to succesfully completely ignore Halloween last night. I saw some bizarre costumes on my way home from work. Like the "I-wanna-be-everything" 16 year old who was probalby too old to be trick or treating anyways, and who was wearing a b'day cake hat, angel wings, polkadot leggings and a tutu. What was she? a princess fairy b'day cake? 

    In other news I have a LOT of work to accomplish at the moment so this will remain short. I got to give a shout out though to all the ex-xanga peeps who have reappeared. I LOVES it. Just when I was getting amazingly bored with how quiet Xanga was getting.. I get a whole new load of peeps to sub to and lots of new fodder to read. Xanga really needed to have some new life breathed into it.. I'm happy about this! Now if only there was an app..

    Oh, do any of you watch The Sing Off? If so, just know that I

    Oh oh oh.. AND did y'all see this?
     

    Peace!

  • Cookies for thought...

    Woohoo for oldies but goodies returning to Xanga-Land. Ok, they're not old.. but they are good It looks like this comeback is only for a month, but still, i'll take what I can get. Nice to hear from some people who disappeared from here a while back.

    Yesterday I received an automated call about how now Obama's new plan can help with my mortgage. I don't have one so I hung up. It got me thinking though (and this sounds very non socialist or liberal of me) but just because I didn't buy something above my means right after graduation, now I don't get 'free' money? Granted, I also don't get the stress of a looming foreclosure..or the bad credit so i'm not TRULY complaining... but I could have been less responsible and still been ok I suppose. Oh well. haha. I'll keep my debt free self feeling self righteous instead. I'm kidding.

    When I was in Richmond over the weekend, I saw the Occupy Wall Street people camping on a hill by the VCU campus. I am a bit embarrassed to admit that I have not yet gone to Occupy Wall Street in NYC. Partially I have some mixed feelings about it..  I like the idea and I support the 99%. While at first I felt like because I work in finance I can't go, now I feel more like because I work in finance, I should go and be supportive. Here's my dilemma though, I DO support the idea that the country should not be owned by corporations and the ginormous bailouts were insane. I DO like the idea of people standing up for what they believe in. I however DO NOT (and I realize this is a stigma of the occupation) like that unemployed graduates are sitting in drum circles partying it up instead of job hunting. 

    I've been there. I had crazy student loans after college. I was laid off in 2008 when the crisis began. I managed to pay off my loans (side note: with HUGE help from my parents after I paid off about half of it over 7 years) and I managed to find a new job (even in finance again nonetheless). 

    So I find myself caught between liking what the Occupy Wall Street movement stands for, and not being sure whether this party camping out thing is the way to go about accomplishing what it stands for. That said, I love that it is spreading more globally and i hope that it truly does end up having some sort of an impact. The general message I 100% support.

    I also hope that everyone realizes that Goldman Sachs donated $4.6mm to the NYPD right before over 700 arrests were made on the Brooklyn Bridge in NYC. This kind of corruption is beyond wrong. 

    So, with all that said, I hope to see the protest this weekend and offer my support. I donated some canned food to them already but would be pleased to do more. I'll just not mention it at work (Have I talked about how I work with mostly republicans?).

    I'm curious though, how do you feel? What do you think of the occupation? How it is spreading? 

    Now, the beer/tax thing below is not what I believe.. but it does explain the system I suppose..  this thing written by Cookie Monster is great. It was written by someone who calls themselves Cookie Monster..not the actual cookie. monster.   Or was it?


    Cookie Monster Offers Best Explanation Yet for Occupy Wall Street

    Yes, there always going to be rich and poor. But we used to live in country where rich owned factory and make 30 times what factory worker make. Now we live in country where rich make money by lying about value of derivative bonds and make 3000 times what factory worker would make if factories hadn't all moved to China.

    Capitalism great system. We won Cold War because people behind Iron Curtain look over wall, and see how much more plentiful and delicious cookies are in West, and how we have choice of different bakeries, not just state-owned one. It great system. It got us out of Depression, won WWII, built middle class, built country's infrastructure from highways to Hoover Dam to Oreo factory to electrifying rural South. It system that reward hard work and fair play, and everyone do fair share and everyone benefit. Rich get richer, poor get richer, everyone happy. It great system.

    Then after Reagan, Republicans decide to make number one priority destroying that system. Now we have system where richest Americans ones who find ways to game system -- your friends on Wall Street -- and poorest Americans ones who thought working hard would get them American dream, when in fact it get them pink slip when job outsourced to 10-year-old in Mumbai slum. And corporations have more influence over government than people (or monsters).

    It not about rich people having more money. It about how they got money. It about how they take opportunity away from rest of us, for sake of having more money. It how they willing to take risks that destroy economy -- knowing full well that what could and would happen -- putting millions out of work, while creating nothing of value, and all the while crowing that they John Galt, creating wealth for everyone.

    That what the soul-searching about. When Liberals run country for 30 years following New Deal, American economy double in size, and wages double along with it. That fair. When Conservatives run country for 30 years following Reagan, American economy double again, and wages stay flat. What happen to our share of money? All of it go to richest 1%. That not "there always going to be rich people". That unfair system. That why we upset. That what Occupy Sesame Street about.


    THE TAX SYSTEM EXPLAINED IN BEER 

        

    Nothin' like a couple of beers to clarify things!  

     

    Suppose that every day, ten men go out for beer and the bill for all ten comes to $100.  If they paid their bill the way we pay our taxes, it would go something like this.

    • The first four men (the poorest) would pay nothing
    • The fifth would pay $1
    • The sixth would pay $3
    • The seventh would pay $7
    • The eighth would pay $12
    • The ninth would pay $18
    • The tenth man (the richest) would pay $59

    So, that's what they decided to do.

     

    The ten men drank in the bar every day and seemed quite happy with the arrangement, until one day, the owner threw them a curve ball.

     

    "Since you are all such good customers," he said, "I'm going to reduce the cost of your daily beer by $20".

     

    Drinks for the ten men would now cost just $80.

     

    The group still wanted to pay their bill the way we pay our taxes. So the first four men were unaffected. They would still drink for free. But what about the other six men? The paying customers? How could they divide the $20 windfall so that everyone would get his fair share?

     

    They realized that $20 divided by six is $3.33. But if they subtracted that from everybody's share, then the fifth man and the sixth man would each end up being paid to drink his beer.

     

    So, the bar owner suggested that it would be fair to reduce each man's bill by a higher percentage the poorer he was, to follow the principle of the tax system they had been using, and he proceeded to work out the amounts he suggested that each should now pay.

    • And so the fifth man, like the first four, now paid nothing (100% saving)
    • The sixth now paid $2 instead of $3 (33% saving)
    • The seventh now paid $5 instead of $7 (28% saving)
    • The eighth now paid $9 instead of $12 (25% saving)
    • The ninth now paid $14 instead of $18 (22% saving)
    • The tenth now paid $49 instead of $59 (16% saving)

    Each of the six was better off than before. And the first four continued to drink for free. But, once outside the bar, the men began to compare their savings.

     

    "I only got a dollar out of the $20 saving," declared the sixth man. He pointed to the tenth man," but he got $10!"

     

    "Yeah, that's right," exclaimed the fifth man."I only saved a dollar too. It's unfair that he got ten times more benefit than me!"

     

    "That's true!" shouted the seventh man. "Why should he get $10 back, when I got only $2? The wealthy get all the breaks!"

     

    "Wait a minute," yelled the first four men in unison,"we didn't get anything at all. This new tax system exploits the poor!"

     

    The nine men surrounded the tenth and beat him up.

     

    The next night the tenth man didn't show up for drinks, so the nine sat down and had their beers without him. But when it came time to pay the bill, they discovered something important. They didn't have enough money between all of them for even half of the bill!

     

    And that, boys and girls, journalists and government ministers, is how our tax system works. The people who already pay the highest taxes will naturally get the most benefit from a tax reduction. Tax them too much, attack them for being wealthy, and they just may not show up anymore. In fact, they might start drinking overseas, where the atmosphere is somewhat friendlier.

      

    Original Author - Uncertain 

     

    In other news, i cancelled my Netflix subscription and then ordered and watched Horrible Bosses last night. I figure I can buy 4 movies a month from Time Warner Cable or iTunes and still pay less than Netflix. Horrible Bosses was funny stuffs. Not as good as Bridesmaids but still funny. My cousin and I ate Thai food, caught up and watched the movie. Good times! Tonight I am happy to report that I will drop off laundry, pick up the vegetable CSA share and then enjoy the rest of the evening catching up on DVR stuff on my sofa. Alone. I'm a dork for looking forward to this, right?

    Nope.. strike that. I now have friends coming over to watch Survivor tonight. I was pretty clear about how I want to go to bed early and how i won't be hosting and they're not coming till 9:30PM though so most of the evening will still be relaxin'...and even with them there it will be. I'll be in PJs. LOL. 

  • Apparently for $2500 a night, one can rent the Jersey Shore apartment at Seaside Heights. Now my question is WHY?!?! I get that it was on TV .. but what is allure of sleeping in a bed that Ronnie and Sammi did the dirty in? Or sitting in the chairs that they flung around the apartment when they got mad at one another? I wonder if all the sheets are stained orange from their spray tans? I guess if people are paying for it, the owner should go for it, but I think for me to stay in that house, one may have to pay me. LOL.

    My friends and I have been trying to figure out what to do for New Years. It is early still but i've had a couple of conversations about it. Last year was DC, the year before that NYC.. and now more people live even further away.. perhaps we can rent a cabin or apartment (NOT the Jersey Shore house) for a night or two and have a destination NYE? Maybe eastern PA? Maybe the NJ Shore? Do people even rent out things for one night? And NYE at that? Something to look in to I suppose. First I'm going to focus on the Thanksgiving Dinner that i'll be making this year for 12 people...in Amsterdam (yay! I go home for 8 days in less than one month.. so psyched!). Then I turn 30 (not sure i'll do anything for that but we'll see) and there's Christmas.. I kind of don't want to plan NYE, but I do want to make sure we do something fun. Hopefully it will be a group effort. There's still time. On that same note though, I think I bailed out of all Halloween things this year.

    I was invited to a couple of parties but with no costume in mind and this nagging longing feeling to have a lazy watch movies on the couch kind of a weekend, it seemed easiest to just say no and not commit to any plans. Perhaps by the time the weekend rolls around I will change my mind, but for now, i'm thinking I'm staying home. Halloween is great for kids, and I have in the past enjoyed watching the parade or throwing awesome college Halloween parties (we had such good ones!). But now it seems like an excuse for girls to dress slutty and I don't have that desire. I also am feeling particularly non creative about other non-slutty things to be. Meh.

    I preordered Walter Isaacson's Steve Jobs book with a coworker a couple of weeks ago since he had a 30% off coupon of some sort and by ordering both books together we got free shipping. I think I paid $17 for the book. It arrived today and was a surprise since i'd forgotten about it basically. $17 is not bad for a big hard cover. Sadly I won't be able to read it right away since I have other books waiting.. I should stop buying books and read a bunch of the ones I still have to get to first. I also want to read The Big Short by Michael Lewis for work. And the book my dad sent me. And the next Game of Thrones book. And and and..

    Oh, so I emailed Penzey's spices yesterday about the rock solid Shallot Salt that I bought and they wrote back today that they will send me a new jar. So incredibly nice! Beyond!

    Are any of y'all extreme couponers? I definitely am a sucker for a good deal and I enjoy watching that show on TLC once in a while, but I can't dedicate 30+ hours a week to couponing, plus I don't have the room or the need for thousands of dollars of groceries, even if they are free. I know there are people out there who email places all the time with compliments or complaints and they receive coupons and gifts.. perhaps i'll be one of those people when I retire? I'd love to sit around and email companies all day long telling them how yummy my lunch was or how much I enjoyed their service, but sadly I don't think my job would approve. If I had a family i bet the couponing would make more sense, but just for me? nah. Do you guys check any free sample or sweepstake sites? Do you try to win things anywhere? My basic rule is that if is seems too good to be true, it likely is.

    Watching the Extreme Couponing show on TLC makes me feel great about myself though because it is nice to know that there are people out there who are more neurotic than I am. haha. Actually, I don't think I have any hoarding tendencies at all. A coupon hoarder? Grocery hoarder? I suppose this is different from stocking up on massive amouts of dolls or stuff? Who knows.

    I have this nagging feeling that there was something else I wanted to write about today but for the life of me I cannot remember what. Ah well. There's always tomorrow..

    Lately I've been reading some blogs on here and really have been struck by how many people nag and complain about what I consider real firstworldproblems. Now i'm aware of it on my own blog too and so i feel like everything I write about is trivial. That in and of itself is a firstworldproblem though, right? Ugh. Haha. Meh, I suppose as long as I stop once in a while and appreciate what all I have it is alright, right?

    Last night the play was fun and hanging out with my cousin afterward was cool as well. I was zonked around midnight and somehow managed to be awake till about 2AM watching RHBH in bed but I feel ok today so far. My cousin is visiting me from college and we're having dinner tonight together so I want to make sure to get out of work at a reasonable hour. Maybe we'll go get pedi's together or watch a movie and order in some Thai food or something relaxing like that. Either way though, I want to get out of the office at a decent time which means I better get crackin'. See ya!

  • A weekend of cute debauchery..

    I had such a fun weekend! Richmond is adorable and I had a great time with John. It was an indulgent weekend. We ate a lot, drank a lot and walked around tons. The weather was great, the fan district is super cute, Carytown was awesome.. the theme of the weekend was definitely 'cute' since EVERYTHING was. All the places we went had handwritten signs and fliers everywhere, the houses and porches look nice, the people were very friendly and all in all the town felt down to earth, functioning and cute (sorry--it is the best word for it.. i can't help it).

    I landed Friday around 10:30PM and John picked me up. We went to a cute bar called the Bamboo Cafe. Afterward we went to a lesbian bar (I can't help but hear Pauly D and Vinny say "'lezbehonest" in my head) called Babe's that had not only an outside area but also a volleyball court as well. Toward the end of the night there were a lot of angry lesbians at the bar, but we avoided any or all conflict and had fun. We closed that bar out, headed back to John's place and then still managed to stay up chatting till about 4 or 5AM, until I literally fell asleep on the couch while John was talking to me. Whoops. LOL. 

    The next day we slept WAY later than intended, but when we got up we headed out to the Watergrill for brunch. We sat outside in the sun..  As John puts it, he wanted "poached eggs that run on things" and a bloody mary. I had Fried Green Tomatoes Benedict..  mmm mmm MMMM. YUM! It was delish. At brunch a white butterfly flew at me and landed on my glasses. It was funny. After food we walked around Cary street and poked around at some of the variety, consignment and other random stores there. I purchased a Grandfather Clock Slice which I think I will hang in my kitchen (picture is below). Then we went to the Penzey's spice store which was awesome. I bought a couple of spices there (although I noticed last night that the shallot salt I bought was rock solid--bummer. Perhaps I'll email them about it). We were supposed to then go to the Virginia Fine Arts Museum but it got kind of late and so instead we headed back to the apartment to let the dog out and sit for a little. We played a card game and ate yummy snacks and then walked back to Carytown and had dinner at Nacho Mamas. We both were very full but their bangin' shrimp burrito was worth the stuffed feeling since it was delicious--and of course the place was .. CUTE.

    After dinner we walked around some more and kind of bar hopped. From Rancine's to McCormack's Whisy Grill and Smokehouse.. I loved McCormacks. They had this AMAZING hot apple cider with vanilla vodka. It was so good! The owner was also really friendly, the atmosphere nice, their menu of spirits was amazingly impressive.. all in all, a great find! They served martinis in stemless glasses that sat in a fishbowl of ice. It looked cool. We spent some time talking to this guy James who had been in the navy and served in Iraq 3 years. It was interesting to hear him talk about his cold weather training in Alaska and the Search and Destroy missions he worked on in South America. I noticed though that he couldn't look anyone straight in the eye.. sad. 

    We then walked past Babe's which was too hopping and hip for us and so we just headed back to the apartment again, forgetting to go by the museum grounds (which we had planned on seeing at night). So, we picked up the dog and walked to the museum to see the lights and the waterfalls on the grounds at night. It was pretty and I'm glad we did it.

    The next morning we had more eggs that ran on things at this cute little corner place called The Franklin Inn after which we walked to the old Byrd Theater and saw Willy Wonka. The theater was amazing and it was fun to see the movie on the big screen. Plus, it benefitted the Lukemia and Lymphoma society. After hte movie we went to Weezie's Kitchen for a drink and then intended to go to the museum--but realized it closed at 5PM and it was already after 4PM. So, instead we walked around a bit more, got some coffee, and then hopped in the car and drove through the part of the Fan where my parents lived when I was born, I showed John Joe's Inn which i'd been to as a kid, we then drove through Shockoe Bottom, Church Hill and the downtown area of Richmond before heading back to the airport.
    I had a GREAT time this weekend. So SO SO much fun! It was nice to see that I could still have a weekend of drinking and staying up late and survive it.. although i must admit I feel a tad broken today.

    This is the Byrd Theater where normally one pays $1.99 to see  a movie. They also show silent films with live organ music. We paid a bit more than $2 since it was for a good cause but it still was cheap. It was cool to see the inside of this theater. There is an amazing chandelier that isn't shown in this picture though.

    This is the bar that I really liked called McCormacks. See how many types of alcohol there are? And the ladder? haha
    This is one page (of like 6) of the Whikey selection at that bar..and the only cell phone picture I took all weekend.

    This is the clock that I bought:

    On a non-Richmond, VA note, I sort of want to buy this little end table sconce for my apartment off of Etsy. Not as a nightstand.. but it would go in the bedroom. 

    Tonight I am going to see my friend's ShakesBEER (oh boy, more drinking) show after work and then my cousin is staying with me for 2 nights. I am exhausted and totally could use a weekend after the weekend.. but i'll just keep on keeping on . It is all fun things so why not, right? Happy Monday!

  • You know your life is sad when a highlight of the evening is discovering a new comfy spot on the couch. That said, now that my mom's paintings are nicely framed and up on the wall, i'm loving the new sofa and the living room. I'd heart-dot that i if I could . L-i with heart-v-i with heart-ng room. I = dork.

    Oh, in case you're wondering.. the new bedroom, bed and mattress are wonderful as well. I my apartment.

    Let's see, last Friday I went to see the Nerdist Podcast Live with Chris Hardwick, Matt Mira, Jonah Ray and special guest Jim Gaffigan. See I AM a dork. Actually, I'd never heard of any of them really (other than the singled out host) but I really enjoyed it! I laughed a lot and am glad my friend invited me along. The venue was cool and good times were had. Next week i'm going to see a friend's show called Shakesbeer. Should be fun as well (and if not, well.. it includes 3 drinks).

    On Friday i'm flying down to Richmond, VA for the weekend to hang out with mah bestie. I'm looking forward to it muchly! Anyone have any tips for what to do in Richmond? I was born there so you'd think i'd know, right? Meh, i'm not worried as I know bestie & I will have fun no matter what. Frankly, I think the last time we hung out just us was somewhere back in June.. we have some catching up to do. Since I was born in Richmond there are some family friends in the area. Not sure whether to notify them or not.. for now i'm going with not.

    The TV here at work is on (as always, CNBC and mute) and the images of what is going on in Greece are outright awful! This is totally simplistic, but give 'em some Ouzo and stuffed grape leaves and lets party, no? Ok fine. Too easy. I actually live in a very Greek neighborhood. I was too sleepy this morning to notice anything but I wonder if there will be anything going on later.. of course my apartment is close enough to Athena Park that I can hear whatever is going on there from my bedroom when a mic is used. This annoys me to no end on a Sunday morning when there is terrible singing happening. I hope they don't protest the protest--throwing firebombs and firecrackers sounds scary!

    This reminds me of something someone told me recently. The university system in Greece has a flaw. There are many University of Greece Schools and some are better than others. However, one may attend the one closest distance wise. So, say for example one lives in NYC (and all schools are 

    public), one could apply to CUNY City College and get accepted, and then physically live closer to Columbia and thus go there instead. Granted, it is in fact more like the difference between CUNY City College or Baruch and CUNY Queens College or Medgar Evers or UMass Amherst vs. UMass Lowell.. Anyhow, you see what i'm sayin'.

    My dad ordered this book for me the other week and i'm ashamed to admit I haven't started reading it yet. Apparently it is quite funny and so I am sure I will enjoy it. Perhaps I will bring it with me to Richmond. It seems fine for airports.. I half-kid when I say this, but how pretentious am I reading this on the subway: "Were You Born on the Wrong Continent?: How the European Model Can Help You Get a Life" ?!?!? I told my dad it should have come with a dust jacket. LOL.

    Speaking of pretentious.. on Friday at the Nerdist Podcast one guy was joking about those people who are too good for McDonalds.. and how everyone has a McD's in their life, whether it is the actual fast food establishment or US Weekly or something else that is considered a guilty pleasure or low class and yet addictive and delicious. I totally heard myself saying: "I haven't had McDonalds in a long time. I totally prefer Wendy's or Burger King if having fast food--which basically only happens on road trips" and yes people, I think i am pretntious at times. But heck, with two university professor parents, raised in Europe and bilingual.. it could be worse, right? I mean, I could not even WANT a book cover for my snotty 'i'm better than you' book. Ha!

    In other news, I tried to watch the republican debate last night and then realized i'd rather tweeze every single hair on my head individually than watch those morons answer stupid questions with stupid answers. You'd be happy to know I did neither. Instead I watched Rachel Zoe pop out her baby Skyler and 90210 deal with another drug addiction and more unrequited love.  A different kind of stupidity.. but one that leaves me less angry. I can't watch people argue over 'illegals' just the word like that makes me cringe.

    Happy Hump Day, everybuddy!

  • The final result!

    TADA! 

    It arrived! I tipped $20 and am so happy with it. Now I can hang up the new paintings I have on the wall and get some blue curtains and a lamp that fits behind the sofa in the corner and be all set. Weeeee!


    So in the end, I am now at the office and I probably didn't have to be. Ugh. I misguessed. I yesterday sent my boss an email telling him that I was unable to find someone to be at my house from 11:30AM-1:30PM (sofa delivery) but that i'd come in from 9-11 and then be back again as soon as the furniture had been delivered. He wrote back in the evening saying: "Do NOT come in the AM. U are great. Take care of this and come back afterwards. Such an annoyance for you, I feel bad." which was super nice. Somehow though it felt like a test. Maybe it isn't... and maybe he isn't really bipolar and so he would have perhaps still in the AM agreed with what he said the night prior.. but somehow I still felt obliged to come in. I mean, furniture delivery isn't a normal reason to not go to work. We also just had a big blowup recently about trust with the whole car saga a month ago and I dont want to take advantage of the office--or have them feel like I do. Having furniture delivered is hardly a reason not to come to work.. and they're being nice about letting me out to go deal with it. That said, when I walked in this morning he didn't say "oh great, you decided to come in afterall" or anything like that. He was surprised to see me, but not even necessarily in a good way. Oh well. No bonus points OR extra sleep for me I suppose. Either way, it isn't a big big deal. AND, if the sofa comes at 1:30PM I won't feel as bad as if that happened and I hadn't come in in the morning.

    In other news I got the sofa bed out of the apartment last night and now a friend who lives a couple blocks away owns it. The large sofa is still in my apt (and in the dining room and totally in the way and annnoying) but once this new Macy's one is in and fits it will go as well. I have one prospective buyer from Craigslist but we'll see. I do have 5 people coming over tonight to play Settlers of Catan (yup, i'm still a dork) so I could ask the guys to help me move the sofa to the basement and just be rid of it. Perhaps I can even smooth talk the Macy's delivery guys into carrying it for me? Unlikely though. Should I tip them? If so, how much? I never know with this kind of a thing.. what do you think/do?

    When I moved the sofa bed I did notice that there was a small pipe from where the radiator used to be, sticking out of the floor. I hope that this new sectional clears it the same way the old one did. We'll see. It'll be nice to have the new sofa and it'll be nice to start thinking about all things non-sectional since this has totally dominated my mind this whole week.

    Ooh--the website says ETA delivery of 11:37AM. Maybe I'll leave at 10:50

  • I did it!

    The couch is mine! (sang to the tune of that song by Brandy and Monica .. lol). It will be delivered tomorrow -- Macy's messed up the delivery time. It was supposed to come end of the day tomorrow but now is scheduled for 10:45-12:45 PM. So annoying! I need to get out of work for those few hours and something tells me this will not be easy. I told my boss about it, and said i'd see if I could find a friend to be home for me. That said though, I kind of want to be there to oversee the delivery. What if they bring the wrong sofa? What if there's a piece missing? I mean, once I sign for it (or a friend signs for me) that's that.. I feel like I need to be there for that. It was too expensive to have anything go wrong. At the same time though, furniture delivery is hardly a reason to get out of work.. even if i do live alone. Hurmph. I guess I'll figure something out. Ugh. 

    This evening a friend will come and pick up the sleep sofa, and then I listed the other couch on Craigslist so maybe someone will want it. If not, i'll just toss it--no problem. Frankly, I'm not sure i'd buy it the way it looks now.. not even for just $50. It has some stains, but also one of the seats sits lower than the other two. It's not great.

    Eeee.. new couch! Squee. I'm so stoked!


    Did anyone else watch RHBH and wonder whether Kim Richards is a cocaine or meth user? I just started watching Season 3 of The Wire and am loving it.


    I had a great night last night. My old roommate is in town for a month and we FINALLY went to Red Lobster for dinner. 5 years ago, maybe 6 even, for his birthday I gifted him a Red Lobster dinner. It almost happened many times..but last night we finally did it and went.  I now know why people love the biscuits.. they are indeed yummy. The lobster was good too. I tend to not loooove chain restaurants, and this doesn't change my thinking, but it was tasty. I was sooo stuffed afterward. Mostly it was just really nice to catch up with my old roommie. I dont think we had hung out one on one since he moved to Seattle over a year ago. We aren't great at keeping in touch very frequently but he has been back in NYC a couple of times and we do meet up.. this was a good time. And i'll see him again before he goes too. I really enjoyed myself.


    and now for something inspiring on this drizzly Wednesday:

  • Nesting

    I'm not sure where the desire for all this new furniture came from exactly but i've been in nesting mode or something this weekend. On Friday I went mattress shopping. No more moat bed for me! I first checked out Macy's and while I was walking to the mattress department I saw a sectional that had a non corner corner. I realize that doesn't make any sense--let me see if I can explain it. The corner of my living room has pipes in it so I can't get a sectional because it would have to stand off the wall to clear the pipes. This couch has a diagonal back where most would have the corner, so it would clear the pipes and still stand flush against the walls/window. Anyhow, I saw the couch, thought it was great and moved on and looked at mattresses. After Macy's I went to Sleepy's where I ended up actually buying a mattress. Funny tidbit? Both mattress sales guys were named Howard.

    The mattress was delivered on Saturday afternoon and while I was home waiting around for it, I started looking online at this couch and measuring my living room. I kept thinking about it and ended up going to another Macy's to sit on it longer and to see the Mocha color. My friend and I were at the Macy's for about an hour or so and the verdict is that the couch is really very nice. Today is the last day to get it on sale. I need to make a decision. If i get it, I will get it in the Bella Mocha color (not Chocolate of Coffee). I like the chocolate color but with my dark furniture i think it would be too dark in the room--which has northern exposure and just one window as is already. So, you likey?

     


    I'd be getting the one that I put a red box around.

    I am a little bit worried that having one large unit in that room will make the room seem much smaller, however I currently have two regular sofa's in the room so it likely wouldn't change all that much..  the new sofa would be the entire width of the room and then come out about as far as that 3 seater. It would create more good TV viewing seats and while i'd be getting rid of a sleep sofa, two people could easily sleep on this sofa since it is over 9 ft on each side. Plus, I could purchase a high quality aerobed that would likely be more comfortable than that sleep sofa anyways. This is what the room looks like now and where that end table is by the left side of the window is where the pipes are. The tv in this room is now mounted on the wall across from the 3 seater couch (on the right side of this pic). That is the rug and coffee table I still have..  Getting this sectional will mean that there will no longer be an end table... merely the coffee table (and the window sill I suppose)

     So, what do you think? Yay or nay? lol. Macy's has a good 12 months 0% APR financing deal so while i could pay for the whole thing now, I could also just pay around $160 a month for a year and do it that way. The couch is currently about a thousand dollars cheaper than usual. The 3-seater I currently have is dying rapidly and I also strongly dislike all the beige in that room.

    I have other things on my mind, but none as much as this sofa so i'm leaving it at this for now. Feedback please!